Kundli Matching is a very essential part in marriages, but we need to understand the logic behind horoscope matching first, why is it necessary to match horoscopes before marriage ? Does horoscope match-making guarantee a good marriage ? Is kundli matching necessary for love marriage.
Kundali matching refers to matching of the horoscopes of bride and groom for a happy married life ahead. The asta-koota matching is done which is also known as gun-milan where points out of 36 are tallied for both horoscopes, the average is 18 which is termed as okay and above 18 are considered excellent whereas below 18 are considered bad, Horoscopes are just matched taking those points in consideration and whole rest of the factors like quality of married life, planetary positions, life span of the guy/gal is ignored.
Kundli matching is to check the compatibility between two people, but one should also check the quality of married life, planetary positions w.r.t each other, the promise of children in both horoscope, life span of both partners to do a complete horoscope match which very few astrologers do now-a-days.
Now just think, if one horoscope shows combinations for divorce or widow-hood, Can a good match cancel those karmas or combinations in other horoscope ?
NO, therefore an astrologer should check these combinations before saying that the match is good. If you base kundli match-making on asta-koota matching many horoscopes seem to match excellently, but what about to promise in the horoscope ? Does anybody care to think about it ? What if the horoscope of boy or gal has combinations like affliction to 7th house and Venus, connection of 6th and 7th lords from both moon and birth horoscopes and what if these promises repeat in navamsha ? this is an indication of the untoward happening, how can you ignore it ?
The asta-koota matching is suggested to check the physical,mental and spiritual levels of two people with respect to each other as these two people are unknown to each other earlier and are going to spend their entire life with each other, match making helps to jot down their nature, their sexual abilities, their mental and physical tendencies and see if they match with each other. Where is the need for match-making in love marriages where two people are in a long relationship for more than a year or 2 ? They know each other mentally, they know each other physically as they have had sex by then (most of them), the only need for match-making in such cases is to see if these two people will have divorce ? Life span check, children point of view and tendency to cheat, other than that everything already matches fine with them. Besides if two people are ready to live with each other inspite of all the odds even after knowing that the match-making is bad it is there choice. Relationships are based on mutual love, trust and understanding first and after that other things come into play. If one is not going to be happy with a forced marriage or has combinations for divorce/widowhood or other mishaps, no matter how hard you try for a good match, these things will take place.
One thing that can help or control these adverse effects is your own anusthana bala, sadhana or remedies done time to time, but these will help only if one is destined to get divine help. People should not stop trying their free-will. There are many people who never matched horoscopes and had a peaceful married life there are others who suffered as well, you will find people in both categories.
The bottom line is kundli matching helps you to choose the best partner from the available choice, most of the times you will attract only those horoscopes according to the combinations in your own horoscopes. Once in a while you may get a diamond but if you dont recognize it the opportunity is lost. some people have very good love affairs and do not marry due to pressure of parents and later their married life is worse while there are others for which it is vice-versa. Destiny sure gives everybody a fair chance, it is your choice to recognize and take that chance.
So is kundli matching necessary in love marriage ?
The answer is Yes and No.
No because you don’t need to check the points obtained, you are already compatible physically, sexually and mentally if you have been in a long relationship.
Yes, Because you need to see the promise of marriage in the horoscope, how married life will be, how promise of children is in the horoscope, how the life span of both partners is in the horoscope. Once you get these things checked it is your choice to accept and discard your partner depending on your mutual affection, love and the determination to spend life with each other accepting bad and the good things.
I hope this article gives you a clear view about kundli matching.