There has been a substantial increase in the number of divorces and separations since past few years. Divorces are spreading like an epidemic in the society and it is high time people should realize this, marriages tend to end at the drop of a hat with such low levels of tolerance in youth of today. What are the combinations for divorce and separation in astrology ? Which planets indicate such condition in a horoscope and what should be done to control this problem ? This article will be focused on the problems and the solutions in this area of astrology.
There are so many reasons for separations in marriages, the first and foremost being the lack of patience and very low tolerance levels of today’s youth. People have forgotten to enjoy and value relationships as everyone is busy running in the rat race for fat salaries, success without even knowing or understand what they are doing. The actual purpose for which we do all this is ignored. We usually earn money and want security for our family, children and spending quality time with our loved one’s, but people have forgotten these things the craze to show-off and run in the rat race is so high that people are stooping to any levels for success. Most of the time is spend away from home in the office, extra-marital affairs happen as you spend more time with your colleague than your husband. You start with the goal of giving security and happiness to your family and slowly drift away from the goal only to realize that you have screwed your lives but then it is too late to realize this. You don’t have time to pay attention to your child’s upbringing, the result is slowly visible with how the youth of today is behaving with no respect towards, elders, relationships, no value of anything and no sense of behavior or wisdom. Intelligence and wisdom are two quite different things, Intelligent people are not always wise.
Today everything comes with terms and conditions, the matrimonial portal have become fish markets each profile having such unrealistic expectations, greed and lust has no end. It is fun to read that but it is also sad at the same time that people have stopped realizing the importance of relationships and more impetus is on the salaries, status, show-offs, prestige etc. Astrological match-making is just done for the name-sake, people will just announce the marriage where they like everything ignoring astrology, but when they want to reject someone they will use astrology effectively “Arre bhaiyya kundaliya nahi mili”. Most of the rely on software matching which is bound to bring doom on your children, as match-making is much different than what people perceive it to be. It is not as simple as entering the data in the software, checking the points and declaring, “Kundliya mil gayi bhai sahab”. It requires complete study of both horoscope, checking promise of marriage and married life of both horoscope, checking nature and compatibility between planets of both horoscope, checking promise of children, longevity etc in both horoscopes after which gun-milan is checked and final conclusion is arrived at.
Parents should try to understand the mental condition of their children before they decide to get them married, well 90% of people today will say that they do not want to get married as they do not have any idea of how life is going to be and they are mesmerized with hallucinations of a great life, great career, great money and then great settlement which looks theoretically good, some have been into broken relationships and need counseling to understand relationships, some are in relationships and deeply attached to each other and marrying them to somebody else without even understanding their state of mind and the outcome of such forced marriage is really dangerous for everyone involved including families. These things should be well discussed and well understood by parents in a friendly manner with their children, they should be counselled by professional counselors or astrologers if needed. But unfortunately these things do not happen as parents do not understand and do not even want to understand, first thing is parents should be well aware of the traits of their children and search a suitable match accordingly who can handle your child, instead of searching for paise wala, khaandaan wala, status wala, these type of matches look good on paper but when it comes to compatibility you are playing with the lives of your children, these marriages won’t necessarily work out, the result is slowly visible as the generations pass by. What people have today is just money, affluence, status, prestige but relations, emotions, bonding are lost, what has remained is inflated Ego’s.
Our sages were true men of wisdom, the combinations given by them in so many classical literature of astrology have found to be working amazingly on horoscopes, they have to be checked in sync with desh, kaal, paristhiti, nyaay etc and applied liberally, For E.G, 7th lord in 6th house aspected by a malefic causes divorce, this can be checked and found working in western societies in large numbers, but in traditional societies like our’s these will cause fights and temporary separations and may not cause divorce legally, but the same combination in today’s youth’s horoscope can indicate divorce, in dual signs it can indicate two marriages after end to one in religions like those of muslims it can be clear indications of more than one wife and so on, so these are to be applied as per conditions of the age you live in. There are couples who live separately for many years without divorce, such people can also have these combinations for divorce and separation in astrology.
Divorces happen mainly due to lack of ability to make adjustments in life, people who have low tolerance levels, no patience are the first one to opt for divorces, there are many permutations and combinations which indicate such thing but primary combinations for divorce and separation in astrology are indicated by affliction 2,6,7,8,12 houses and their lords in the horoscope.
Lets take a look at one horoscope, the jatak concerned is a medical professional and highly qualified lady who has done MD in ayurveda, the name and birth details have not been disclosed for privacy reasons.
You can apply the above principles on this horoscope, let us see the combinations for divorce in this horoscope.
So what could have been the advise for this horoscope if it came to you for match making ? I would like readers to think on this and understand the limitations of match making. What advise can you give to the person having such a horoscope where destiny is so strong, see the concentration of planets in fixed signs showing dridha karma which cannot be changed. Mercury 7th lord is vargottama but under aspect of malefic saturn and conjunct with 6th lord sun and a malefic mars in a fixed sign.
The only advise one could give to someone is avoid marriage with this horoscope or marry two people having same combinations for divorce since both are bound to be separated, sane advise would have been to make adjustments in marriage and relationships, keep the Ego or ahankara away from relationship and learn to be patient and change yourself. But will the person pay any heed ? Readers can themselves ponder over these issues, those who have such combinations can clearly reach a conclusion as to what changes they can make in self to work out their relationships. Astrology is a divine vidya, it is the eye of vedas and the limb of vedanga which clearly enables you to understand your strengths, weakness, opportunities and threats, our sages through their divine vision have beautifully deciphered the combinations for divorce and separation in astrology. It is the humans who are unable to work out on their limitations and weakness and blame others for their sufferings.